The Dechurched, the Wilderness Experience, and the Next Move of God

The Movement Out of Institutional Churches

The ranks of the dechurched are growing every day. More and more people are questioning the influence and effectiveness of institutional churches in general. There is a growing movement that is creating a huge contingent of people who no longer attend regular services for whatever reason, many of whom are simply staying home. These dechurched people are frustrated with the status quo and at the same time have a fervent desire to have a much clearer focus on what the Church is supposed to be.

Many of these people are just simply tired of the ineffectiveness and lack of real ministry in many of these established churches, but a disturbingly large number of people are leaving because they've been hurt in churches with controlling leadership. Abusive churches are a major problem, churches that are run with very heavy-handed leadership leaving members used and abused. Once these people get free from the controlling environment, they are very likely to pull out of church altogether at least for awhile to heal and rediscover their relationship with God. 

 

Whatever the reason, the ranks of the dechurched are growing every day, people that have one thing in common- a deep desire to find Jesus and the real Church.

The Current State of Things

The Old Wineskin

The modern, traditional, institutional church as it is established now is one that breeds laziness, passivity and an atmosphere that encourages religion. Tradition dictates that one man or woman (or couple) is in charge, carrying the load of all things spiritual along with their staff and a handful of others, while the members for the most part remain passive and uninvolved. 

 

There is an assumption that the clergy has the education, the "spirituality" and the calling, and thus should carry the lion's share of the responsibility. There has been a clear division for centuries between the clergy and the laity, a division that promotes the sense that members aren't qualified to minister.

The entire set-up of a typical church regardless of its denominational affiliation (or lack thereof) lends itself very readily to the audience/performance type of arrangement with the majority of the members doing little more than just sitting and listening to whatever is doled out from the platform. 

 

There is little if any encouragement for members to function in their gifts, little encouragement for actual spiritual growth, little opportunity for one-on-one ministry. Typically, people file in, find a seat, chit-chat a bit, listen, then head for the car. And we feel like we've done our spiritual duty for the week with this arrangement.

Institutional church is rife with the traditions of men and thus religion- programmed institutions that are run with man's programs, man's plans, man's works. As spiritual as we think we have been, "church" is nothing like what it should be, and most people know it. What we call church is far removed from the ideal, on-fire Church of the New Testament. We've become lukewarm, complacent and numbed by the religion that permeates our services.

Church Buildings- Money Pits?

These churches have buildings that require a great deal of money to build and maintain, thus a constant need for funds. This sets the stage for the generally accepted doctrine that says that the tithe must be paid, specifically to the local church, or the curse is just around the corner. They also promote the notion that the blessing comes as a result of giving. 

 

Many churches find themselves under pressure to produce finances for building programs and resort to arm-twisting to extract at least the tithe from as many as will conform to that particular tradition. And the pressure is greater every year with those churches that are actually growing and need bigger buildings and more paid staff. Paid staff- now there's another tradition that isn't anything like what the New Testament Church was.

Consider the millions taken in every Sunday morning in traditional churches across this country. What percentage of this ultimately goes to feed the hungry, support missionaries or accomplish other actual ministry? Consider the budget for just the building (maintenance, utilities, insurance, etc.), and how many hungry children could be fed with what comes in? Bigger is not necessarily better, in my book.

The abuse of the prosperity message has corrupted many a ministry over the years. When this kind of doctrine is promoted and the money starts rolling in, the temptation to covetousness is huge, and just doing a little research on big-name television mega-ministries will prove that the draw into love of money is often too much to resist. 

 

With the prosperity message being emphasized in many of these churches, the members are left believing that their giving into these ministries is their ticket to the blessing of God. This leaves grace completely out of the picture and introduces religion; giving becomes works that earn your blessing. And of course the church itself will prosper nicely with this arrangement, but do you? That's works and more religion.

Understand that I tend to be rather biased in this regard. I spent 12 years in an abusive, charismatic "word of faith" church that distorted the Word to pad its own pockets. But since coming out, I am discovering how duped many of us have been for decades, believing these doctrines that are part and parcel in most churches anywhere you go.

The Dechurched Because of Abusive Churches

Spiritually abusive churches, or what I call red flag churches, aren't readily obvious. Generally they exist in the charismatic branch of Christianity, flourishing among those congregations that have no denominational oversight. 

 

They seem to have all their ducks in a row, with what seems to be preaching according to the Word of God, great worship services and the gifts of the Spirit in evidence. But they emphasize extreme submission to authority and exert an inordinate amount of control over their congregations with absolutely no accountability.

It took me 12 years to finally come to the conclusion that the church I was in was anything but healthy, so I know first hand how difficult it is to recognize an abusive church. Leaving is difficult for many reasons, and the emotions experienced are very intense. Some liken it to spiritual rape. For me the feelings of betrayal were the most intense. I have had to deal with coming to the realization that most of the teachings I had received for three decades had been doctrines formed by scripture twisting and proof-texting.

Churches like this are everywhere, and the number of people suffering from spiritual abuse seems to be growing every day. These people require special ministry and more than likely much more time to recover, making their wilderness experience a longer and harder season. Many of these may never return to institutional church, completely leaving anything that even vaguely resembles what we traditionally view as church, and some may abandon their faith altogether.

Those that are leaving these kinds of churches are a significant part of the dechurched. Their experiences are unique and those that manage to overcome the fallout from the abuse will come out on the other side with a much deeper commitment to God and to a ministry centered on grace and the Truth.

But it's even worse than this. I am just now finding out about the depths of abuse including sexual abuse going on in mainline denominational churches now. This perversion knows no bounds, apparently. The Light is shining into the darkness in ALL church brands, and the numbers of wounded are growing every day. If this is you, GET OUT. 

 

I had written this post originally to be centered on spiritual abuse, but the sexual, mental and verbal abuse factor is gaining a lot of publicity now. As these other victims leave their churches, the ranks of the dechurched grow stronger, and for very good reason. Will the real Body of Christ please stand up?

The Wilderness Experience

As people leave their churches, the next step seems to be a wilderness experience, a time when a relationship with God is strengthened and God deals with issues that need to be taken care of. It's a time of preparation much like Moses, David, Paul and many others in the Bible went through before their time of ministry. Many who have left their churches felt like they had been called out by God, even though the people they left behind have accused them of being rebellious and unsubmitted.

When believers make the decision to leave what they've known for years, a season of prayer and seeking the face of God is necessary to determine what to do next. The wilderness experience also works to purge out old faulty doctrines, wrong attitudes and other issues that would hinder ministry, as well as pulling all crutches out. 

 

Tradition tends to create crutches- you think you're spiritual IF... if you read 3 chapters of the Bible a day, if you pray for an hour a day, if you pay your tithes, if you go to the building every time the doors are open, etc., etc. The wilderness experience forces believers into the arms of God, building trust and faith in our Heavenly Father apart from all the the traditions of men.

The process of leaving is hard at best, particularly if those left behind aren't very sympathetic. Coming to terms with the reality of the situation can be very difficult and can take quite a bit of time to reconcile and is particularly hard for the dechurched that have left abusive churches. This presents a whole different set of problems that are dealt with in my post Making the Decision to Leave an Abusive Church.

Time in a regular, institutional church can also create a laziness in believers, a tendency to expect the leaders to carry the load of all things spiritual. God will work to remove those crutches in order to pull you into a relationship with and dependence on Him. Many of us have relied on others for much of our spiritual responsibilities, and in the wilderness all that must change.

The process is certainly no fun, but necessary to bring us into a place of true, unhindered ministry, a stronger relationship with God and clear direction. It is not an easy time by any means, leaving the familiar, losing all our former crutches and having to face our wrong attitudes and beliefs, but as we come to a place of complete surrender to God, learning to be led by His Spirit, that is when we can truly be used by God to bring real change to those around us. 

 

And this is, indeed, the point- coming into a deeper relationship with God and learning to hear His voice so we can be led by His Spirit and by peace, not by all the other voices around us.

The Next Move of God

The New Wineskin

Institutional churches generally are doing all they know to do and there are some good programs out there, and many look to the small, house church movement as an answer. But there again, this is just another man-made system that is prone to corruption- pride, love of money, whatever. The problem is that it's still a "format", a system devised by man. And as such, being left in the control of man's hands, it will eventually become a system that will tend to leave God out.

I have come to believe that the true Church is merely His people living their lives led by His Spirit, demonstrating the love of God to those He brings across their paths. No system of planned meetings can accommodate what God intends with His Church.

People who have gone through the upset and the wilderness experience that comes with leaving what was their church for years will come out with a relationship with God that many others will never know. In an institutional church setting, it is far too easy to get lazy and expect the leadership to do all the heavy lifting.

 

 

 Liquid Church

 

We are all to hear from God, be led by His Spirit, and have that relationship with Him that He intends. I believe the next move of God is merely His people learning to walk with Him every day, demonstrating His love to a broken world, a "liquid" church that moves when He moves, goes where He tells them to, and truly abides in Him.

Many people are leaving churches out of frustration, feeling like they no longer fit in. These people are tired of the sameness of the services and the lack of real ministry. Some say they are leaving because of a prompting from the Holy Spirit. To these people, "church" brings up images of a system that is more of a drain than anything else- a drain on their time, money and talents. 

 

But not all who feel this way have left their churches; some will stay because God has not called them out. There are bound to be good local churches out there that are doing and will do effective ministry to their communities, so this is not a blanket indictment of local church in general, merely a general statement on how most churches tend to be. Working with local churches would be the ideal situation, bringing unity into the community and a real expression of love to those in need.

God is doing away with the old wineskin and replacing it with a new one that will break when the new wine is poured in. In existing churches? Perhaps. That depends on how they react to this new move of God and if they choose to change with Him, and that is where people must learn to be led by the Spirit. 

 

Rule of thumb- follow peace. If peace dictates that you stay in your church, then that is what you must do. But if church is leaving you frustrated and discouraged, then peace may dictate that you leave and seek His face for a season to determine what you must do next. Pulling out takes courage, but many have done it and support is out there.

 

 Check out another blog post: Liquid Church- The Shape of Church to Come

 

Out of Church Christians by Andrew Strom. This is a free book written by a man who had printed an article on the movement of Christians out of traditional churches and was flooded with emails from people all over the world who told their stories.

Recommended Reading

 

The Out-of-Church Christians by Andrew Strom  

 A look at the trend toward leaving church

An Irreligious Faith: How to Starve Religion and Feed Life by Glenn Hager
This is Hager's personal account of his church experience and what led to his leaving institutional church. He has a lot of great ideas for the church of the future.

Leatherbound Terrorism by Chris Kratzer
This is another personal account of someone else who has left the institutional church. His experiences bring home the dichotomy between what Jesus intended and what man has done to the Church.

Finding Church: What if There Really Is Something More? by Wayne Jacobsen
This book has absolutely hit the nail on the head. Wayne clearly shows how the true Church is expressed by individuals leading their lives by the promptings of the Holy Spirit and demonstrating the love of God to those around them. It has little to do with "church" as we've know it.

Red Flag Churches: Distinguishing Protection from Control

This book recounts my experiences in a spiritually abusive church and what I've learned since leaving.  Free download in several formats. 

To Tithe or Not to Tithe

A Particularly Sacred Cow

The tithe is a sacred cow that has taken over church thinking for centuries and has been considered basic Christian doctrine by just about everyone. This particular post will no doubt step on a lot of toes and cause an enormous amount of offense, but I am going to stick my neck out here and go against the tide of tradition in a big way to try to bring some sense and reality into our thinking where money is concerned. 

 

If this upsets you, you won't be alone, but please at least consider another point of view before slamming down on the "close" button! You owe it to yourself (and your family) to see what tradition has done to us all.

Institutional church today is permeated with doctrines that amount to the traditions of men. Much of what we consider "gospel" is nothing more than men's interpretation of scripture that goes beyond anything that is actually taught in the New Testament. We have been so thoroughly programmed to accept these doctrines, we consider anything contrary to them to be heresy, when actually it is the doctrines that have been twisted into something close to heresy. 

The one doctrine that irks me the most is the doctrine that demands the tithe. I assumed for decades that this doctrine was truth, considering a non-tither to be disobedient if not out-and-out rebellious. How far from the truth this is! This goes hand-in-hand with the distortions of the prosperity message in general and the perversions thereof. But to really understand how far off the mark this is, you have to understand how our thinking about "church" in general is distorted, how we have misused the term itself and have taken it to mean something it doesn't.

Defining "Church"

The People of God or a Building?

The word "church" in the New Testament refers to believers in general, the general population of those who profess Jesus as their Savior. It has nothing to do with a building and never did. New Testament believers didn't go to church, they were the Church. And those believers met wherever they could, in houses or public places, but never in a building erected for that purpose.

It was Constantine that changed all that when Christianity became the state religion and buildings were erected to more or less compete with the pagan religions of the day. He wanted Christianity to look "legitimate" so the construction of monster, elegant buildings began. Through the course of time the buildings became more and more elaborate, culminating in those huge cathedrals with all the pointy things on top. All of this was simply mimicking pagan religions to bring Christianity into a place of acceptance. [1]

So the meaning of the word "church" shifted from simply referring to believers in general that met wherever they chose to meet, to attending some scripted service at a building set apart for that purpose; in other words, Christianity became an institution. "Church" has become synonymous with the actual ritual we go through every Sunday in that building we call the church. 

 

So with that shift in meaning, we assume that the presence of God is in the building, that the building itself is sacred, and now we just take it for granted that we must support this building for God's work to continue. This is the line I bought into for years, as I'm sure you have as well.

[1] For more information on the origins of our Christian traditions, see Frank Viola's Pagan Christianity.

Christianity as an Institution

Feeding the Monster

Because of the way "church" is now, with big buildings, paid staff and demands for finances to maintain them, these doctrines have become deeply ingrained into Christian thought for generations. We consider the building to be the dwelling place of God, calling the structure the "house of God", and in so doing, we think that we are obligated to support it with our finances.

When Jesus came, the old system was abolished, and that included the temple as a building and all its rituals. Jesus' body is the temple now- the Word calls believers the temple of God, not some building, yet we pour money into these structures to keep up appearances. If you stop and think about it, much of this is strictly image maintenance. We have been duped into believing that we must support these structures because this is where we "meet God", this is where the presence of God is, and that is just plain unbiblical. Believers are the temple, not the bazillion structures all over the land.

We pour money into these buildings that generally get used 3 times a week at the very most, and we support programs that are designed to keep this monster fed. Program after program is concocted to keep the members they have and try to draw in others, when all the time, church attendance is, generally speaking, dropping like a rock. (Which brings up another point, that we were clearly called to "go", not to try to get people to "come".) 

So when churches get under pressure for money, the traditional thing to do is to remind congregations of their obligation to God to provide tithe money to the "storehouse" so that the work of God can go forward. I've been in several churches over the years, and they all say the same thing.

 

 

Cursed or Blessed?

Let's Think About This

So tithing is used as an arm-twisting measure to see to it that the coffers are kept full, particularly when there is a building program looming. You have all heard the routine- scriptures (always taken out of context) are preached to make you think that if you don't pay the tithe you're robbing God, and you are opening the door to the curse. 

 

But if you are the good little obedient Christian, then tithing will open the door to God's blessing in your life. And we all "amen" this quite vigorously, absolutely sure that we are being told the truth of God's Word. This is sound, biblical doctrine, right?

Let's look at this. Right off the bat, you can see that the curse is something that is essentially held over your head if you are disobedient. Well, we wouldn't want that. So we have dutifully paid out our tithes to avoid being rebellious and to avoid the curse, forgetting that Jesus has redeemed us from the curse of the law (Gal. 3:13). Once born again, the curse has no place in a believer's life, tithe or no tithe. Period. We have bought into this without really thinking.

In one church I attended, and I swear this is the truth, the pastor preached that you cannot curse what God has blessed on one Sunday, then started a series of sermons the very next week on tithing and how the curse is lurking around the corner if you don't. And the "amens" came from all over the congregation, and I would have been in there right along with the rest of them not too long ago. (Of course, they were heading into a building program.)

What bothers me more than anything is that this doctrine is employed with a very heavy hand in red flag churches, churches that either are abusive or tend to lean that way. Pressure to give is constant, and the threat of the curse if you don't tithe is always hanging there in the air to condemn those who don't. They use it as a method of control and manipulation. This is truly a "sacred cow" that needs to be slaughtered! Here is a quote from cultwatch.com- How Pastors Get Rich.

This is the big daddy. This is their sacred cow. This is the beating heart of their evil empire. The crown jewel. The Death Star. The one ring to bill them all. The pot of gold. Their matrix (into which they want to plug you). Their Wizard of Oz. Their magic spell. Their special power. Their secret recipe with the eleven herbs and spices. Their Golden Goose. The very air upon which they breathe! Question this doctrine and watch these money hungry pastors bare their fangs. This is a teaching that they will bear no compromise on. Tithing, or at least their own version of tithing, is their one true love.

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Works vs Grace

Earning the Blessing?

Second point- this doctrine turns giving into works for which the blessing is the reward. If you are born again, you are blessed, no works required. We all know that salvation is by grace through faith and that not of works; it is the gift of God (Eph. 2:8), but somehow it's so very easy to slip back into a works mentality.

It's honestly hard to believe that so very many Bible-toting Christians truly believe that paying tithes will qualify you for the blessing of God. Grace goes out the window when you buy into this. And isn't this the whole point of Christianity? It is the message of grace. No more works required. Nothing we do can qualify us for the blessing, and that includes paying tithes. And the ironic thing is that we are told, "Tithe or be cursed", while actually, when you tithe you are going back under law and thus under the curse.

 

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Abraham and Melchizedek

Noah's Son Shem, or Pagan Priest?

Tithing is just simply not taught in the New Testament. The only reference generally used is that of Melchizedek in the book of Hebrews. This was a one-time tithe off the spoils of war, not a regular thing in Abraham's life. And according to Russell Earl Kelly, PhD, author of Should the Church Teach Thithing?, Melchizedek was more than likely a pagan priest, not Shem, one of Noah's sons, as I was led to believe. He believes that Melchizedek was actually a pagan priest of Salem, a Caananite city, not Jerusalem. He offers plenty of information to back up this conclusion.

This changes all the reasoning used to justify tithing in the New Testament. Abraham simply gave a one-time tithe to this pagan priest; there is no record of Abraham ever tithing again, and it was on war spoils, not his property or income. So if his example is to be followed, then a one-time tithe (assuming you have war spoils) should cover it!

Paul and Giving

Willingly, Not Grudgingly

Paul never taught tithing. New Testament giving is to be done with a willing mind, according to what is purposed in the heart, and according to ability, not according to law:

Then the disciples, every man according to his ability, determined to send relief unto the brethren which dwelt in Judaea: Acts 11:29 KJV

Every man according as he purposeth in his heart, so let him give; not grudgingly, or of necessity: for God loveth a cheerful giver. 2 Cor. 9:7 KJV

Now therefore perform the doing of it; that as there was a readiness to will, so there may be a performance also out of that which ye have. 12 For if there be first a willing mind, it is accepted according to that a man hath, and not according to that he hath not. KJV

New Testament giving was always out of a willing heart and according to ability, not according to formula. Giving was indeed a very important aspect of Christian life and still should be, but to relegate it to a law and a formula is just plain wrong. The New Testament is replete with scriptures that exhort the believer to take care of the poor, the widow, the orphan. We are to give as the Spirit leads directly to those in need, not through the institution that church has become. Consider what Jesus told us in Matthew 25:

When the Son of man shall come in his glory, and all the holy angels with him, then shall he sit upon the throne of his glory: 32 And before him shall be gathered all nations: and he shall separate them one from another, as a shepherd divideth his sheep from the goats: 33 And he shall set the sheep on his right hand, but the goats on the left.

34 Then shall the King say unto them on his right hand, Come, ye blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world: 35 For I was an hungred, and ye gave me meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me drink: I was a stranger, and ye took me in: 36 Naked, and ye clothed me: I was sick, and ye visited me: I was in prison, and ye came unto me.

37 Then shall the righteous answer him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee an hungred, and fed thee? or thirsty, and gave thee drink? 38 When saw we thee a stranger, and took thee in? or naked, and clothed thee? 39 Or when saw we thee sick, or in prison, and came unto thee? 40 And the King shall answer and say unto them, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye have done it unto one of the least of these my brethren, ye have done it unto me.

41 Then shall he say also unto them on the left hand, Depart from me, ye cursed, into everlasting fire, prepared for the devil and his angels: 42 For I was an hungred, and ye gave me no meat: I was thirsty, and ye gave me no drink: 43 I was a stranger, and ye took me not in: naked, and ye clothed me not: sick, and in prison, and ye visited me not. 44 Then shall they also answer him, saying, Lord, when saw we thee an hungred, or athirst, or a stranger, or naked, or sick, or in prison, and did not minister unto thee? 45

Then shall he answer them, saying, Verily I say unto you, Inasmuch as ye did it not to one of the least of these, ye did it not to me. 46 And these shall go away into everlasting punishment: but the righteous into life eternal. Matt 25:31-46 KJV

This should be the basis for our giving, not pressure from the pulpit to give ten percent whether we can afford it or not. Giving should be from the heart, not out of arm-twisting from the pulpit, not out of a legalistic conformity to the traditions of men, and certainly not out of fear of the curse. 

 

Giving should be out of faith, as the Spirit leads, cheerfully and according to ability, and no other way. Every community has plenty of charities that will gladly take your donations that will go directly to those in need. Look for a local food bank or samaritan center, for the Red Cross, or the Salvation Army. There are plenty of ways to give to those in need.

 

 

Tithing- Biblical, but Not Christian

Proof-texting at its Finest

Tithing IS biblical in that it was instituted as a tax system to support the Levites who had no portion otherwise, and to support the poor, the widow, the stranger, etc. It was a system that was necessary back then but was strictly for that day. You can find out all about that in the references listed below.

So when did tithing become a doctrine of the Church? According to Ken Westby at The Journal, tithing was instituted by the Catholic Church at the Synod of Macon in 585:

Early-church history shows that, just as the Catholic Church, by its own authority, made other far-reaching changes that have been carried down in the Christian-professing world, that church is responsible for much of today's misunderstanding on the subject of tithing. The Schaff-Herzog Encyclopedia of Religious Knowledge explains that, when the tithing concept was adopted by the Catholic Church, it was voluntary in nature. But, at the Synod of Macon in the year 585, payment of tithes was made compulsory under threat of excommunication. Secular authorities were then used to enforce this demand.

So tithing was introduced hundreds of years after the first century Church to support its burgeoning budget of buildings and paid clergy. The Catholic Church at the time was supreme authority, so the common man had no recourse but to accept what edicts were delivered, being told to pay up or be excommunicated. The tithe was essentially a Vatican money grab that was established to feed the institutional system that the church had become.

But since that time, the Body of Christ has come to accept this without question. We have been fed a doctrine that has, over time, been justified by "proof texting", or taking isolated scriptures out of context and slapping them together. The truth of God's Word can be found as it is read in its original context and by praying in the Spirit. It takes the Holy Spirit to reveal the Word and its true meaning:

Knowing this first, that no prophecy of the scripture is of any private interpretation. 21For the prophecy came not in old time by the will of man: but holy men of God spake as they were moved by the Holy Ghost. 2 Pet. 1:20-21 KJV

Much error has been propagated in the Body of Christ for years, error that has placed believers back into bondage to rules, laws, religion. And religion bewitches; it blinds those that yield themselves to it, bringing them into deception. 

 

Many ministries, and the Word of Faith movement in general, have fallen prey to this. The doctrine of the tithe as a requirement for Christians is error, it leads to a religious, works-oriented mindset and leads to bondage to law. Jesus died to set us free from the curse of the law.

For detailed examination of scriptures used to back up the current prosperity doctrine, check out the resources listed below. They have all done excellent jobs of refuting this teaching with a balanced look at those scriptures in context.

Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage. Gal. 5:1 KJV

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Online References

The number of references that debunk the whole tithing doctrine are growing all the time. Here are some of them.

The Tithing Debate

Over the past thirty years most Christians have heard, numerous times, the arguments for tithing being law for Christians today. TithingDebate.com is dedicated to bringing you the other side of the story. The side a portion of Christian leaders would rather you did not hear.

Gary Carpenter Ministries

Carpenter provides free articles that provide explanations of scriptures used to justify the tithe; he puts them into context to bring perspective into the issue. There are precious few nationally known preachers I still trust, and Gary Carpenter is one of them.

Eating Sacred Cows

This is a free pdf book by Graeme Carlé that examines the biblical and historical facts of the tithe.

Tithing: Low Realm, Obsolete and Defunct

By Matthew E. Narramore, this book is made available at this website and presents all the arguments against the tithe for Christians. Either read it at the website or hard copy is available there or at amazon.

The Exhaltation of the Tithe

"The subject of the tithe is always a touchy issue among believers. Many of us have not yet been set free in that area. Receiving your blessing has everything to do with what Jesus did. There have been countless teachings, blogs and articles on tithing and offerings. However, I just wanted to share something that has been on my heart for quite some time and I find to be quite troubling."

Modern Day Church at Done With Religion

This is a short, to-the-point post that pulls it all together very nicely.

Recommended Reading

Balanced Teaching IN CONTEXT

You may find some of these books in your library, and if not, there is always the option of buying used books through amazon.com. I have a fair sized collection of books now that I built by buying used books that are in either very good or like new condition, and I've kept my costs very low that way.

Pagan Christianity by Frank Viola

Viola goes into the tithe issue in chapter eight.

Should the Church Teach Tithing by Russell Earl Kelly, PhD.

The history of the tithe is examined with arguments against using this doctrine in the Church today. Very thorough and very convincing work.

God's Guarantees for Giving by Ron Knott

This is a great book with plenty of scriptural support for the argument against the tithe.

What Preachers Never Tell You About Tithes and Offerings by Eric M. Hill.  

Another great book that blows this tradition of man out of the water. He also explains the New Testament model for giving that we should all be following, rather than being tied to a legalistic, mandatory formula that pulls believers away from faith and back into works.

The Midas Touch by Kenneth Hagin

In this book Hagin explains the errors that preachers have fallen into with the prosperity message, though he still adhered to the tithing doctrine.

Red Flag Churches is a book recounting my experiences in an abusive church and all I've learned since leaving. It is available as a free download at smashwords.com.